Saturday, September 27, 2008

A new beginning...

Its nearly the end of this month. It hasn't been very different. And yet it has...

Good things, Bad things, Do they always balance out?

Her status message very aptly describes the happy parts of the month - Of foof, do doos and happy people. :)

There are some days in your life when you are unsure of it all. And then something comes along and the tables turn.
You think, and think and think, and yet your decision becomes impulsive.
There were days when Why? actually became Why not?

A stressed out month, "morogolds" everywhere. A productive month, all the work is done.
A fun month, light moments bring a smile.

It was the after effects of August.
People are strange. They make me curious...

Its always nice to see people happy and smiling.
"We need happy people because we can't make ourselves happy anymore," she said.
"No way. We just want [not need] to find different ways to stay happy, discover new ways."

Its true. Maybe its because we are scared of losing the happiness we got by a certain thing/person. That is why we are always looking. Simple joys of life, there are so many.
If not this, we can turn to something else. If not that we are looking for another way.... Just in case.
But yes, We can be happy if we wanted to. We have all had happy days to remember and bring back to life. What's stopping us? People? Thoughts? Feelings? Experiences? Memories?

Again, good things and bad things. Don't they balance out?
For every bad memory, there is a good memory to think of.
For every bad/sad feeling there is a good feeling - doesn't really have to be happiness. It could be peace of mind. That would make Me happy for sure!

"The things that things do to you!"

Ah, life... Its full of it. Every kind of 'it' you can imagine! It makes a person wonder....

Cheers to smiling days, curious people and interesting lives!

3 comments:

Parnika said...

Hmmm..Lots of things to think about...U haven't heard my wave theory...Nehal knows this...I believe there are as many tears are there are smiles in a day, in a month, in a person....
Smiles are all the positive feelings or memories or things
Tears need not only be sad feelings but anything negative..anger, pain, jealousy..whatever...
Each time you encounter a 'tear', you can be sure of a 'smile' which is as 'happy' as the tear was 'sad'.
Well, that's just a simple basic definition...some ppl believe there are definitely more 'tears', cos they focus only on the negatives and some ppl believe in the smiles cos they can remember them better...
So yeah, basically, good things follow bad things...

"There were days when Why? actually became Why not?"
I like this :) PK said it in class once for some very different reason...

Oh and the happy ppl convo I donno if u were around when Sum and I were saying the same thing...People can't make themselves happy without other people...Again, I vehemently argued that there are so many other 'causal factors of happyness' (:Please excuse Abnormal Psychology terminology)

Again, the queen of endings, you made a valid phrasebook statement :) 'The things that things do to you' And though we can't point out all the 'it's we know exactly what you're talking about! :)

Sudeeptha said...

hehe! u blogged on my blog post! on my blog!
i Was part of the kiosk happy ppl convo... thats where it came from..

Parnika said...

he he..be grateful for page long comments! it means ppl are actually reading and taking u seriously! he he..and I stand by my "ppl can make themselves happy" theory..i proved it so well this week :)